I’ve learned that there’s nothing called disappointment. Yes we all have expectations and hopes about certain things that we want to work out the way we’ve imagined it to. But doesn’t everything happen for a reason?
This is what I’ve learned; we are the ones that let disappointment exist in the first place. Although it may not be on purpose when we have expectations, everything will work out the way it’s meant to. And nothing, literally NOTHING works out for a bad reason. Everything has its reason for occurring in certain situations in your life and you just need to have some faith in those unknown reasons.
I personally have faced lots of dead ends ever since the beginning of this year. Everything doesn’t work as i wished and nothing goes right. And since I’m a type of person who always plans for everything that i want to happen in my life and always have tons of expectations, it is very frustrating for me to see everything going wrong not only once or twice but constantly. But when I started to look at what’s happening to me from another perspective, I found that certain things aren’t meant to happen whether now or ever because there’s something much better planed and is on its way. I kept thanking GOD on whatever happens to me whether good or bad, because I definitely don’t know what GOD has planed for me. And another thing that I’ve learned is not to stress on things too much. When I constantly keep thinking about every step that I take or face during my day, it doesn’t allow me to let things work out the way they are meant to. I keep letting bad energy mess up my life when I see things don’t work out.
However, when I started loosing my focus on things and relaxed instead of stressing out, I saw everything working on just fine. Literally everything was getting done by itself, maybe not in the same way I’ve planed them to but at least they’re getting done.
“When things don’t work out, you can’t force them to. You just need to close your eyes and let them be.”